“Can you ask for specific reasons?”

“Or because of doubt.Doubts that the ancestors left something good for them to affirm righteousness and longevity.Shen Ankang's sister was a change of family for Shen Ankang, and she gave birth to a daughter, to recruit, and the children born in the future were with her husband.I remember the name Xiao.They recruited the son of Shen Long-lived Daddy.The father should be a name.When this happened, our family couldn’t figure out what was going on.In terms of generations, it is not appropriate, very inappropriate.Although there is more than one son in the dry father's family, it is strange to let the son into the thick.Later, he said that he had passed away from their first son, and he lived out his life.Our family was invited to eat wine, but also wanted to ask what happened, but there is no clear, and what fortune teller and so on... My grandmother's idea is that they were asked impatiently, only to make excuses.There may also be a fortune-tocidal, but the Xiao family and the Guan family agree that it is certain that Shen Ankang has given something.What the ancestors left to affirm righteousness and longevity must have fallen into the hands of Shen Ankang.”

“Is that just speculation?”

“They are convinced.My grandfather didn’t talk much about it.Is this a small talk between women's families, as an outsider... I mean a little idea as a daughter-in-law, or a real one, I'm not sure.At that time, there was really any right and inheritance, and it had nothing to do with the daughter-in-law and daughter.They may not have a chance to know the secrets of a family.It is a bit of an exaggeration to say that the family is said...The sisters who were the first to affirm and affirm righteousness were all broken in contact with the family after marriage, and their status was even lower.Alas . . .

“Hmm.After the death of Shen Ankang, the other two want to recognize their children, is it?”

“There is this thing.At that time, our family and their family were less connected.Mostly, some of Shen Ankang's wives did not promise to return Xiao Win.They are only daughters-in-law, after the death of their own man, is a minority member of the family, but the words of the outside world... Shen Ankang's sister also wants to win back.They couldn’t help but ask some of our family’s seniors.But what’s going on... my grandmother said it must be weird.They called our family's people to support the scene and preside over justice, but the two sides quarreled, and some of the words our family did not understand, and they were unwilling to explain.Probably ... at the beginning of the recruitment, succession, Shen Ankang there are benefits, there are conditions, make the agreement, they let Xiao win the recognition of the ancestors, is a reasonable thing.But Shen Ankang's wives did not agree."

“What are their conditions, you don’t know?”

“I don’t know, my grandmother just doubted it.Oh, my grandmother scolded my grandfather for this reason, and thought that he was hiding things, and stupidly regarded people as relatives, and did not want any good, and gave it to others."

"I understand.So, have you also received a New Year card in your home?Do you confirm that the card sent by Xiao Win is your relative?”

“My mother felt so.She is very sure.When I received the card... I remember my father taking the card from the mailbox, he didn’t know this person, asked my mother, and asked me.My mother thought for a moment and remembered that Xiao Win was the Xiao Win.The name is not really sure.My grandparents called him a little name, little five or a five or the like.After that, I took a single word name, but it wasn't a "win", it was something else... the pronunciation was somewhat similar...I'm sorry, I really can't remember."

“It doesn’t matter.Your mother is very sure of his identity, and your mother's brother does not seem so sure?"

“That’s it.My uncle uncles they... not say they’re bad, just these things, they probably don’t know.My grandmother and grandmother wouldn’t tell them too much about it.My grandfather was not happy to listen to them, and they were not happy to know the younger ones.It’s mostly about the idea of a son-in-law.They did not treat my mother badly, but the way they were raised was different for children.Or that boys should bear the heavy responsibility of the family, should be uplifted, the girl's words, the mother, grandmother with some housework, said the parents are short, it does not matter."

“Hmm.What do your elders think about this man himself?”

“Poor, it’s a little complicated.Considering the fact that they later recognized the ancestors, they thought that... at that time, Xiao Win might be ten or twenty years old?Go to college.They thought they were a good boy, but Shen Ankang should end up giving him an important legacy.He should have gotten the most important thing in our family.This idea now seems to be ... our family is at most a small accumulation of landowners, the relationship, the doorway, in that era can not continue to be preserved.Mostly not to be maintained.Of course, that’s my opinion.No one in our family joined the army.Although not affected much by the war, it has not benefited, and it is impossible to maintain some of the previous relationships.Our parents certainly did not get such instructions and did not know those people.On the other side of the affinity, a few men do not live long, their health is not good, and the thing that continues the incense is tossed for a long time.”

"Well, I can understand your idea."

"To say relics ... antiques and the like, can also be understood."It is possible that there is something that has been left behind and passed to Xiao Win.The return of the ancestors should also make Xiao win distressed.Normal people are upset.The biological parents are willing to send themselves out, until the person dies, and then take him back.I doubt that there is something else on the part of the parents.Not the one who is pictured, but the picture of what he got.He should be good, good-nive, and polite.My grandmother had a very good impression of him and felt sorry for the child.Several times I asked my grandmother to go to the court, and he should be grateful.Later, we were sent a few New Year cards, probably because of this kindness... nor can it be said that it is grace... envy may also be... his family's fragmented situation, our family is the father's filial piety..."

"I understand.Have you ever sent anything back to Shaw?”

“My mother sent a card.sent in the first two years.Later, looking at the New Year card he sent every year, the address of the New Year's card was different, and it was suspected that he always ran out of the trip when he was in the New Year, and he did not send it.This... in fact, my mother also said that he can be so dashing, perhaps also thanks to his succession to Shen Ankang, got something."

“Hmm.This is not confirmed by the doubts of your elders, right?There is no trace?”

“No.”

“Other than the New Year card, are there any other things?”

“No more.”

“All right.Thank you.”