Should Start From the Child's Perspective
Chapter 1871:Should Start From the Child's Perspective
“If I don’t come back, do you know what your family will look like?”The moon laughed and asked.
Xu Mengzhu shook his head: "I don't know."
“It’s worse than it is now!”The moon said with a smile.
The house became in disrepair, and the son looked at himself with a look of fear, which made her more worried than the inferior of a room, and what knife in the world could be more painful than the knife of the loved one?
Xu Mengzhu felt pain in his heart, so he asked, “What happened just now?”
Liu Guangliang put the child down, want him to approach his mother, but he has just been beaten for no reason, the child remembers the hatred, said that nothing wants to go over, see this scene, Xu Mengzhu heart is like a needle, look at his son, constantly ask what happened just happened.Liu Guangliang was helpless, so he had to tell Xu Mengzhu in detail from beginning to end.
The New Moon eats grapes next to them while listening to their stories, don't ask where the grapes come from, the storehouse of food that you can't imagine, there is nothing he can't save.
After listening to Liu Guangliang's story, she finally couldn't help but sigh and said, "Now things are a little difficult."
Liu Guangliang did not expect her to turn around and asked, “What is difficult?”
She said, "I told you before, I will send your daughter to the Difu Department, but now it seems that I can't leave for a while."
“What happened?”Liu Guangliang asked nervously.
She pointed to the pillow and said, "The first time I saw your daughter on my street, she was just an ordinary little boy, but when I came to see her today, I felt that she was entangled in her grievances, but it was very difficult for me to understand the thoughts of children, because they might easily like the last thing, and it was easy to hate the last thing, and like and hate to put on them, there was no need for too deep reason."
Liu Guangliang asked, “You mean that my daughter has become a grudge, is it... the kind of ghost that must be removed?”
She shook her head and comforted him, saying, "Don't worry, become a grudge, get rid of one of the ways, in fact, there is a better way."
“What way.”
"Remove her grievances."She patiently explained, “In this world, there is no love for no reason, no grudge for no reason, as long as you can understand why she hates you, and believe that with your blood relationship, it should be easy to break this knot.”
Liu Guangliang was surprised: “How is it possible?“How can Red hate us?”
Xu Mengzhu covered his face and cried: "Red must be hating me as a mother who has not been able to take good care of her, and did not look at her well on the day of the accident, and if she did not look at her properly on the day of the accident, otherwise she would not have run to the road alone to play, and she would not be hit by the car!"
Hearing this, Liu Guangliang's heart was in pain, guilt drowned him, he bowed his head and sighed in a deep sigh.
Unexpectedly, the moon shook its head.
"No, that's not true, you think the red will hate you because of this, that's your own idea, not red.""If you want to know why red and red are angry, you should start from the child's point of view so that you can find the real reason."
Xu Mengzhu froze, and she said incomforcing and uneasily, “Isn’t that why?”You think, the child was in a car accident that day, by so many cars have not died, then she must be very painful, how painful she is, now how much hate us, not?" 」
The moon shook its head.
“No, then what can it be?”Xu Mengzhu said anxiously, "I really can't think of any place where the red can hate us!"
“Do you want to hear her speak?”The moon pointed to the pillow and asked.
The husband and wife nodded and said, “I think!”
"But you have to be prepared first, because the baby is moody, so I don't know if you will stimulate her because of the bad words in the next conversation, and you will stimulate her, let her go crazy, there may be some situation that I may not control."
"How, how could it be?"Red and Red, she’s a good boy, and I’ll come and talk to her, okay?”Xu Mengzhu covered his heart and said to Shuo Yue sincerely: "I am a red mother, she usually listens to my words, so now you let me talk to her, I will definitely be able to relieve her grievances!" 」
“Do you know why she started to resent?”
“I’ll talk to her later, I’ll know.”
The moon laughed and shook its head.
Xu Mengzhu asked nervously, “What do you mean by shaking your head?”Do you think what I said is wrong?”
"Children's expression is limited, so I don't know if you can understand what she is going to say to you, so now, I will first say my speculations to you, let you be prepared in advance, so that when you see the little red and red, it will not be wrong."
“Guess what?”
When he looked at Kama, he said:
“As far as I know you, in the place where your kids happened, there’s a bunch of kids who play the same game every night, just jump in the house.Children’s songs are also sung every day.Little Red stood on that section for too long, and although he could not play with them, he listened much and remembered the nursery rhyme.The reason why she came to Kwokong and her aunt to jump the house, I think it must have been influenced by the group of children."
"But in my uncle's description, I found that although Little Red and Red played with her brother, the person who played was her, not her brother."Children are a bit overbearing in it, but they absolutely prohibit their brother from playing games, which shows that in fact, Little Red is not so fond of his brother."
"Moreover, when my aunt was manipulated by Little Red, Kippong Pine was not allowed to eat on the table, play pine, and threatened to kill pine - I am afraid this is the true portrayal of Little Red's heart - she really wanted her brother to die!"
Xu Mengzhu listened to this reasoning, was shocked, couldn't help but stand up, and asked in shock: "How can this be so?"The pine is a red brother!Why did she want her brother to die?It is impossible!”
She looked up at her, smiled, and said, "That's why I said it's just your adults' unilateral thoughts, and you can only understand why Red and Red do this if you think from the perspective of your children."
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